Navigating Being Doxxed: A Guide for Girls

Hey there, ladies. Let’s get real for a moment: dealing with doxxing can be incredibly overwhelming and scary. When someone shares your private information online without your consent, it can feel like your entire world is turned upside down. But remember, you’re not alone, and there are steps you can take to regain control and protect yourself. Here’s a guide to help you navigate through this challenging time.

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What is Doxxing? 

Doxing is a cyberattack that finds and makes public personal information about a person or organization. The purpose of doxing is to discredit or shame the target when personal information is made public. It falls into two primary types.

Physical doxing is the act of obtaining personal information about a target by going to their house or place of business. This may mean snapping pictures of the property or snooping on documents that contain personal information. Physical doxers may trace the whereabouts of their targets using GPS tracking equipment.

Online doxing is the act of obtaining personal data about a person from websites and social media accounts without that person's consent with the intention of disclosing details about their identity or behavior. For example, if you have ever disclosed your address online, it would be easy for someone with malicious purposes to browse through your posts and profile pictures and determine where you live.

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 1. Document Everything

First things first, start documenting everything. Screenshot any posts, messages, or emails where your personal information has been shared. Don’t forget to note the date, time, and platform where the info was posted. This documentation is essential for reporting the incident and taking further action.

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2. Report the Incident

Next, report the incident to the platform where your information was posted. Most social media sites and forums have anti-doxxing policies and will remove the offending content. If you’re receiving threats or harassment, contact your local law enforcement and provide them with your documentation. It’s important to take these threats seriously.

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Resources:

- Cyber Civil Rights Initiative: Provides guidance on reporting and offers support for victims of online harassment.

- Crash Override Network: Offers crisis helpline services and support for victims of online abuse.

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 3. Secure Your Online Presence

Now, it’s time to secure your online presence. Update the passwords on all your social media, email, and other online accounts. Opt for strong, unique passwords and enable two-factor authentication whenever possible. Review and adjust the privacy settings on your social media accounts to limit who can see your information.

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Resources:

- Have I Been Pwned?: Check if your email or phone number has been compromised in a data breach.

- Authy: A tool for managing two-factor authentication.

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4. Protect Your Financial Information

Keep an eye on your bank accounts and credit reports for any unusual activity. Consider placing a fraud alert or credit freeze on your credit file to prevent identity theft. It’s better to be safe than sorry when it comes to your finances.

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Resources:

- Annual Credit Report: Get a free credit report from each of the three major credit reporting agencies.

- IdentityTheft.gov: Provides steps to protect yourself from identity theft and recover if it happens.

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 5. Remove Personal Information from Public Databases

Use online tools and services to remove or suppress your personal information from public databases and people search websites. You can also reach out to websites that have posted your information and request its removal. This can help minimize further exposure.

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Resources:

-DeleteMe: A service that helps remove your personal information from the web.

-Just Delete Me: A directory of direct links to delete your account from web services.

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6. Seek Legal Advice

If the doxxing involves severe harassment or threats, consulting with a lawyer can be a good move. They can help you understand your legal options and guide you on the appropriate actions to take. Legal professionals can offer valuable support and advice during this time.

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Resources:

- The Online SOS Network: Connects victims of online harassment with legal resources.

- Women's Law: Provides legal information and support for women experiencing online harassment.

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 7. Get Support

Don’t go through this alone. Talk to your friends, family, or a certified counselor for emotional support. Doxxing can be incredibly distressing, and it’s important to take care of your mental health. Lean on your loved ones and seek professional help if needed. Remember, it’s okay to ask for support.

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Moving Forward

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Doxxing can have long-lasting impacts, but by taking immediate action, you can minimize the damage and protect your personal information. Stay vigilant about your online presence and take proactive measures to safeguard your privacy. Most importantly, remind yourself that you’re not alone. There are resources and people available to help you through this challenging time.

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